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The Fog
After the fire comes the smoke. Thick, disorienting, and hard to breathe through.
The Fog is the in-between space: numbness, confusion, and the slow piecing together of what really happened.
It didn’t happen in a tidy order. Some days were foggy even while I was creating or coming home to myself.
These are the writings where clarity was still forming and the path forward was hidden in shadow.


Don't Be Mad At Me
This isn’t about rehashing the past.
It’s about understanding the pattern clearly.

Katherine Tatsuda
Jan 153 min read




More Than Lies
What lingers isn’t love—it’s the realization of how much I was lied to.

Katherine Tatsuda
Jan 83 min read


Who Would’ve Thought
A bittersweet memory hit me tonight. It was a good hike.

Katherine Tatsuda
Nov 18, 20251 min read


I Didn't Expect This
I didn't expect to be hit so hard in the middle of absurdity.

Katherine Tatsuda
Nov 14, 20254 min read


Relapse Into The Wound
I thought I would be ok. What is 90 minutes? It turns out it is an eternity.

Katherine Tatsuda
Nov 9, 20252 min read


Build The Ladder
What do you do when no one is coming to save you?

Katherine Tatsuda
Nov 9, 20252 min read




Something I Haven't Said
Healing hasn’t been all strength and self-love. Sometimes it’s been worry, raw and human

Katherine Tatsuda
Oct 12, 20251 min read


The Mind's Mercy
Sometimes the mind doesn’t forget, it simply waits until you’re safe enough to remember.

Katherine Tatsuda
Oct 6, 20252 min read


The Ache of Two Truths
What do you do when the life you lived and the truth you discovered refuse to fit together?

Katherine Tatsuda
Oct 3, 20253 min read


Goodbye, Old Friend
A morning text brought news I didn’t want, but I carry the love just the same.

Katherine Tatsuda
Oct 1, 20251 min read


Wings of Grief
There is a strange power in standing on the precipice, holding both ruin and flight at once.

Katherine Tatsuda
Sep 30, 20251 min read


Every So Often, The Fog
The fog rolls in every so often, memories stirring, familiar shadows appearing. But I keep walking, knowing that I loved deeply.

Katherine Tatsuda
Sep 29, 20251 min read


The Hidden Cost of Loving a Man Who Lies
The hidden cost of this relationship probably isn't what you think.

Katherine Tatsuda
Sep 25, 20254 min read


Addiction, Love, & The Choice to Stay
Between love and hurt, I don’t know the next step. For now, I’m letting that be okay.

Katherine Tatsuda
Sep 20, 20252 min read
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